I am a fan of Tyra Banks show. I like how her show is fun and covers many controversial topics and things that needs to be heard. We talked about stereotyping in class. On Tyra's show she had some people together that watched some short clips about race and stereotypical and some very heated discussion on it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhxsQV8JAmQ
In this section they watched a film on two different women with 3 kids each. One family black, one family white. "family and Race"
Why is is that when you see a "White women" you think that she is married and got it made. Why is it that the White woman situation is viewed more positively?
But when you see a "Black" women you think that she is going to be on "welfare" and have different fathers for each of her kids?
There is still racism today. Christian, a white male, says "well if the united states is so racist then why do we have a Black President?" And like what we have talked about in class, just because we have Black President it doesn't change anything or takes away the fact that racism still exists.
The one lady says "your not Black, you don't understand." And I think that this is true. Because no matter what subject we are on, race, ethnic, age, whatever, if your not that person and is being judged or is doing the judging and assuming, your not going to understand how it feels to be in that position.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Monday, February 8, 2010
"young girls testing the waters"
One of my myspace friends by "SUMO:Oblivious"; made a blog one day directed towards young women that I thought kind of relates to some of the things that we talk about. She titled it "Dear Women." She talks about how young "Hmong girls" are testing the waters and not being good little girls. I think that what she is addressign is not only for the Hmong crowd put for women and to inform them that htey are already looked down upon because they are women and should step up and defend thier sex.
Here is a bit of what she wrote:
She writes: "I believe it is just sad how some young girls overexpose themselves in photos and post it up or whatever having no shame whatsoever. I see it disgraceful of a young girl to let themselves loose and let everyone see who they are. It is like that one Hmong saying, "Cia luag pom yus lub qes"."
She goes on to address this: "You are a Woman. Hardly anyone respects You because You were born with a freaking vagina or pussy like my sister has put it. Have a darn head to learn and act like a Normal human being. Most of all, at least have some Respect for yourself if no one does. Stand up for your name even when people stomp on you. Do not just make matters worst for yourself when situations are already at its worst. Stop being a blinded fool and act as if the world is yours. It's not, stupid. If you feel as if Life itself is too hard on you and that's the reason why you need to free yourself in that way...Face It. Life is freaking hard. That is why we live to fight through it."
"Just to put it Simple: As a Woman, have some shame and Respect. For society already looks down on us for not being Men. Especially you Hmong girls. Trust me. Don't make matters worst for yourselves."
In the sentence were she says in hmong "Cia luag pom yus lus qes" translates to "Letting others see your body." I took what she wrote as a plee or something of that nature to address the Hmong girls on the way the dress and acting in certain ways that are making them not look good to the older hmong people. It not only is for the Hmong women, it is for all women as well. She focuses on why women shouldn't degrade themselves because like she and her sister put it are already born with an disadvantage becuase they have a vagina. Being born into this world as a women you are already marginalized by society. One of her friends commented on what she wrote. Houa Thao wrote :"Truth had to come out some time :P Careful Hun people may hate you for this." And it is true, things like this are very sensitive and many people who agree or disagree with things like this are very contraversial.
Here is a bit of what she wrote:
She writes: "I believe it is just sad how some young girls overexpose themselves in photos and post it up or whatever having no shame whatsoever. I see it disgraceful of a young girl to let themselves loose and let everyone see who they are. It is like that one Hmong saying, "Cia luag pom yus lub qes"."
She goes on to address this: "You are a Woman. Hardly anyone respects You because You were born with a freaking vagina or pussy like my sister has put it. Have a darn head to learn and act like a Normal human being. Most of all, at least have some Respect for yourself if no one does. Stand up for your name even when people stomp on you. Do not just make matters worst for yourself when situations are already at its worst. Stop being a blinded fool and act as if the world is yours. It's not, stupid. If you feel as if Life itself is too hard on you and that's the reason why you need to free yourself in that way...Face It. Life is freaking hard. That is why we live to fight through it."
"Just to put it Simple: As a Woman, have some shame and Respect. For society already looks down on us for not being Men. Especially you Hmong girls. Trust me. Don't make matters worst for yourselves."
In the sentence were she says in hmong "Cia luag pom yus lus qes" translates to "Letting others see your body." I took what she wrote as a plee or something of that nature to address the Hmong girls on the way the dress and acting in certain ways that are making them not look good to the older hmong people. It not only is for the Hmong women, it is for all women as well. She focuses on why women shouldn't degrade themselves because like she and her sister put it are already born with an disadvantage becuase they have a vagina. Being born into this world as a women you are already marginalized by society. One of her friends commented on what she wrote. Houa Thao wrote :"Truth had to come out some time :P Careful Hun people may hate you for this." And it is true, things like this are very sensitive and many people who agree or disagree with things like this are very contraversial.
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